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You Belong Somewhere You Feel Free...
by dopie1985
( 26, Female from KY , AIM SN: beckyanne92585 )

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Interview #2...
02-01-12 08:23 PM

I have a second interview with the company in Knoxville on Friday at 4pm.  Yay!

I also have a first interview with a company in Loudon at 8am on Friday.  Unfortunately, I will be interviewing with the corporation's Vice President/CFO....STRESSFUL!!!  This job is for an accounting manager position.  It pays extremely well, but I have no management experience...I'm afraid I'm going to look like an idiot to this guy...

But I'll do it anyway just to increase my chances of getting something!  LOL



Daniel is in a very bad place...He's completely overwhelmed with his job and he's sinking further and further into depression...He feels like a failure because he can't "save" the body shop he's managing...I've tried to explain to him that he's doing everything he can, he can't help it if the owner doesn't want to give him the tools to succeed...but he still sees it as him failing...Which means he's not excited about applying for anything else right now (because he has very little self-confidence)...Which is driving me nuts because I feel like this entire move is on my shoulders (even though he's the one wanting to move to TN)...I've tried to tell him that it's absolutely necessary for him to start applying for jobs even if they're not exactly what he wants...I can't support us on my income alone...Not there...Rent in Knoxville is double what it is here...Utilities are double...We'll still have our car payments, insurance, cell phone bills, etc...And we'll have to pay for moving expenses!  Him not applying for jobs is not an option!!!!  I hate to stress him out even more, but he has to realize that not doing anything is not an option.  The perfect job is not going to just fall in his lap.  He needs to start looking for the light at the end of the tunnel and get excited about a potential move and new jobs...I just need to find a way to get him out of his depression long enough to do this...



Oh yeah...Dad went to the hematologist today...The doctor doesn't think he has cancer or anything...He thinks his platelets are low because of the meds he's on...Which is definitely a good thing!  He said he'd definitely give him clearance to go ahead with the surgery in March!

Current Mood: Stressed 

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by wonderland_refugee, 02-02-12 02:08 AM   
I'm gonna call you tonight, sorry I didn't sooner. I was waiting for Brandon to go to work so we could talk uninterrupted, lol.

Does Daniel's boss know how personally he is taking the business failing? Maybe knowing his employees care will give him motivation to do something to help his business.
by dopie1985, 02-02-12 11:18 AM   
I don't think his boss really cares about his mental health...He cares about his bottom dollar...I did find another job for Daniel to apply for last night though and he seemed kinda excited about that, which is good!
I'll be driving to TN from about 6pm-8:30pm...that's the only chance I'll have to talk...after I get there, I have to do some prep work for the interviews and try to get some sleep....lol...

   

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